May 09 2010


Friends don’t ask anything about the special heading I gave. If you know what is this then just read this article fully or if you want to find out what it really mean try to understand the whole thing.
This day is something special for me. I can say i was told the wisdom of life on a special day. I took little time to pen down this wisdom, which i felt most important for everyone’s life. When this was told to me my vacuous eyes appeared clueless about the life till now.
One interesting thing i noticed was she was treated for a day where she had the liberty to do anything she wanted. She was given freedom from her daily work. She was given many cards bought from shops. At that particular day the sun was shining bright for her and day was looking happy too. It was in the evening I could see her eyes filled with tears. First i thought she was happy with the way her day was celebrated, but i was proven wrong. There is few things in her mind many things in her heart which she hid in there. If one could hear her heart that was hurt, it was like a raw wound rubbed afresh. Phrases like “don’t worry everything will be alright” sounds hollow to me, false illusions or dreams. I was fortunate enough she shared the wisdom learnt from her life which she learnt from raw pain. The next magic thing happened at that time was her hand caressing me, the magical touch of an angel. This is what she shared with me, which i remembered in broken pieces and managed to mend it together.
Every one of us has happy time during which, everything we touch turns to gold. There are times in our lives where things may not seem joyous or happy. Some events happen and steal away our joy. The mistake we do is we put happiness in temporal things and become unhappy. When we buy new house we become happy. How long are we going to be happy with that; how long that happiness will last? Its never enough for us, the cycle goes on and on and on. These are the things which we have to keep in our heart and follow our heart. At the end of everything we say I lived my life to my wish for certain extent.

  • First and formost thing is keeping things in perspective. Putting things in proper place. If we hate something or leaving someone makes you unhappy consider the scenario in big scheme of things. Will it really matter when we grow older?
  • Look at the root cause of what makes us unhappy.
  • Always remember what makes us happy.
  • Think and recall a small thing which makes us happy. If we wish right them down.
  • Live our life with the person we think we know, we love never ever compromise in that. One point of time we it can hurt us. Or love the person you live with which we can’t sometimes. This is the big mistake i ever did in my life i never fought for my love.
Well these are some of the wisdom which i could pen down. Hope you enjoyed it and agree with it. All the appreciation for this article goes to a mother, she can be mine or she can be yours. Never lose her from heart.
Happy Mother’s day

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